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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.3 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Fri, 19 Mar 2010 18:16:30 GMT--><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><title>Lucy Wightman</title><subtitle>diary</subtitle><id>http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/</id><link rel="alternate" type="application/xhtml+xml" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/"/><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/atom.xml"/><updated>2010-03-18T02:26:27Z</updated><generator uri="http://www.squarespace.com/" version="Squarespace Site Server v5.9.3 (http://www.squarespace.com/)">Squarespace</generator><entry><title>Couldn't Say it Better Myself</title><category term="carbon monoxide poisoning"/><category term="diary"/><id>http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/3/17/couldnt-say-it-better-myself.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/3/17/couldnt-say-it-better-myself.html"/><author><name>Lucy Wightman</name></author><published>2010-03-18T02:25:19Z</published><updated>2010-03-18T02:25:19Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>It takes watchful informed family members, friends, and observers to  notice behavioral changes in a survivor <em>and</em> understand that the changes began after the carbon monoxide  poisoning <em>and</em> are likely connected to it. These may well be behaviors that the survivor themself  is unable to notice or admit to.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, if a survivor behaves in an unfamiliar or  uncomfortable way, it is [much] more common for family, friends, and coworkers to feel disappointed, then as additional things  happen feel annoyed, escalating to anger, and finally if it continues, backing away from the relationship.</p>
<p>Seldom do those close to a survivor understand that it is the ongoing  effects from carbon monoxide poisoning that continue to impact the survivors behavior, functioning, and their  relationship.</p>
<p>Things like missed appointments, forgotten special occasions,  incomplete work, seemingly inappropriate behavior, mood instability, selfish/impulsive behavior, and unfamiliar reactions  may baffle, frustrate, and annoy those around the survivor.</p>
<p>It may take time for those close to the survivor to understand that  although the survivor may look &#8220;normal&#8221;, sound &#8220;normal&#8221;, and appear &#8220;normal&#8221;, they have in fact changed and are  behaving [somewhat] differently. Many may never recognize the reason for the change.</p>
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]]></content></entry><entry><title>We are NOT Going to Discuss Rain, Only Centipedes</title><id>http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/3/15/we-are-not-going-to-discuss-rain-only-centipedes.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/3/15/we-are-not-going-to-discuss-rain-only-centipedes.html"/><author><name>Lucy Wightman</name></author><published>2010-03-16T02:41:24Z</published><updated>2010-03-16T02:41:24Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>I have spent some time cleaning out a garage.&nbsp; Nothing like a boatload of spiders hiding under their individual leaves.&nbsp; As long as there are no damn centipedes.&nbsp; At least spiders make a failry predictable path unlike the centipede whose movements are like the Queen on a chess board, only in quadruple fast forward speed.</p>
<p>Centipedes look different at night.&nbsp; See that stout, cigar shaped lint over there?&nbsp; Boo! It is really a centipede waiting to skittle on its own evil parallel plane, and then zoom into a blur like an air hockey puck.&nbsp; It isn&#8217;t even afraid of you, or your dog.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Centipedes sting.&nbsp; That&#8217;s nice.&nbsp; In a fight between a spider and a centipede I wonder who would win? I would totally root for the spider.&nbsp; I wonder where centipedes live.&nbsp; They seem solitary too, like the world&#8217;s best predators.&nbsp; The psychopathic creature, but don&#8217;t call it a bug! Call it an anthropod, a relative of the spider, the lobster, the shrimp and the humble barnacle.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Most centipedes don&#8217;t even have sex to reproduce.&nbsp; The males just deposit their sperm <em>wherever</em>, and assume that a female will come along and eat it.&nbsp; Nasty.&nbsp; There is one species said to reproduce asexually and produces only females.</p>
<p>The cute illustrations for children&#8217;s books represent an altogether different and completely inaccurate verson of the creepy crawler.&nbsp; It is usually a super friendly, multi-colored worm with multiple pairs of sneakers.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Did you find one yet, maybe in your bathroom or under your bed near the damp window?</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 600px;" src="http://www.lucywightman.com/storage/HouseCentipede.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1268708911135" alt="" /></span></span></p>
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]]></content></entry><entry><title>It All Needs Help</title><id>http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/3/7/it-all-needs-help.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/3/7/it-all-needs-help.html"/><author><name>Lucy Wightman</name></author><published>2010-03-07T15:05:08Z</published><updated>2010-03-07T15:05:08Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>My poor website&#8230; Come to find out there are sewer gases and carbon monoxide in my little house by the sea.&nbsp; No excuse for losing my mind, but throw me a bone.&nbsp; With town inspectors crawling all over the place and Winkle having seizures and me waking up like a female version of Jethro, I guess my payback for a fairly charmed life continues!</p>
]]></content></entry><entry><title>Pocket Full of Starfish</title><id>http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/28/pocket-full-of-starfish.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/28/pocket-full-of-starfish.html"/><author><name>Lucy Wightman</name></author><published>2010-02-28T05:35:15Z</published><updated>2010-02-28T05:35:15Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.lucywightman.com/storage/starfish1.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1267336201977" alt="" /></span></span></p>
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<p>seabeds wretched themselves</p>
<p>ornament sized lobsters, a cow speckled seal and &nbsp;</p>
<p>anemic clam guts</p>
<p>snot between rocks.</p>
<p>a secret pact between galaxies and water,</p>
<p>one catches the other&rsquo;s lonely, broken things.</p>
<p>starbuds choked up through foam</p>
<p>unbelonging moist creatures</p>
<p>curl their weak starpointed hands into the sand</p>
<p>and stop the eyeless search.</p>
<p>now cradled in my palm</p>
<p>a pocket full of starfish reunited</p>
<p>they are cut from ancient sky.</p>
<p>love arrives too late to save them</p>
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]]></content></entry><entry><title>It's What I Am</title><category term="active musing"/><category term="letter"/><category term="lucy wightman diary"/><id>http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/26/its-what-i-am.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/26/its-what-i-am.html"/><author><name>Lucy Wightman</name></author><published>2010-02-26T23:25:09Z</published><updated>2010-02-26T23:25:09Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.lucywightman.com/storage/heftyletter.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1267226736925" alt="" /></span></span><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 700px;" src="http://www.lucywightman.com/storage/golfziploc.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1267226952148" alt="" /></span></span></p>
]]></content></entry><entry><title>The Patriot Ledger</title><category term="princess cheyenne"/><id>http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/23/the-patriot-ledger.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/23/the-patriot-ledger.html"/><author><name>Lucy Wightman</name></author><published>2010-02-23T14:49:28Z</published><updated>2010-02-23T14:49:28Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<img src="http://www.lucywightman.com/storage/ent.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1266936670476" alt="" />
]]></summary></entry><entry><title>A Thank You Note</title><category term="trolls"/><id>http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/22/a-thank-you-note.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/22/a-thank-you-note.html"/><author><name>Lucy Wightman</name></author><published>2010-02-23T03:57:37Z</published><updated>2010-02-23T03:57:37Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<img src="http://www.lucywightman.com/storage/jethro_bodine.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1267158847792" alt="" />
]]></summary></entry><entry><title>The Combat Zone</title><category term="being a human"/><category term="combat zone"/><category term="lucy wightman"/><id>http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/18/the-combat-zone.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/18/the-combat-zone.html"/><author><name>Lucy Wightman</name></author><published>2010-02-18T23:18:03Z</published><updated>2010-02-18T23:18:03Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;</p>
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]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Seven Curtains to the Moon</title><category term="active musing"/><category term="lucy wightman"/><category term="lucy wightman diary"/><category term="lucywightman.com"/><id>http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/2/seven-curtains-to-the-moon.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lucywightman.com/lucy-wightman-diary/2010/2/2/seven-curtains-to-the-moon.html"/><author><name>Lucy Wightman</name></author><published>2010-02-02T14:40:23Z</published><updated>2010-02-02T14:40:23Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[I arrived late after losing an entire curtain.&nbsp;<span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.lucywightman.com/storage/curtain.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1265173946826" alt="" /></span></span>
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