lucy wightman

Or is it you that you are knowing and convincing the you that you really know something about somebody whose inner life can only be guessed, reported on, taken at face value etc…?

I received an email from a young woman, a friend, who had this to say about what they looked like (but I did not ask her to tell me - her words gave me the idea to ask)

“When you say ‘man changes,’ I immediately envision your walls turning into aluminum, a fresh scent of diesel hovering in the air, along with surround sound, a keg-er-ator, and countless stacks of those cheap cigar tubes turning up in your laundry.”

What has caused you or what would cause you to let go of an important friendship?

Can men and women be trustworthy, intimate friends?

“Is a lock the appropriate symbol of a bond between two people in love?  It brings to mind the phrase “the old ball and chain”…..I know plenty has been written about love symbols, and my feeble mind can’t compare to those poets.  What are some good symbols of love?”

                                                                                             pirated from a Gnurd comment