Lucy Wightman Questions - Comments

Peter comments on Michael Jackson

Peter — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 19:28:52 +0000

Shit, give me a break, the guy was a pedophile. Why? Because any man that says it's ok to sleep and go to bed with a small boy is a pedophile.

Put him in the Woody Allen club. The only way they both are not in jail is because they have lots of money.

Peter

Sue comments on Michael Jackson

Sue — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 23:08:42 +0000

I think it is easy to separate the man from the artist for me. I loved his art. I think he was a musical genius. Him as I a man, I thought he was very odd. We will never really know what happened with all of his allegations. So many people wanting so much money makes for a very corrupt legal system. One thing is for certain though, when I hear certain songs that he did I go back to a time and place when life seemed much easier.

Thinking comments on What Does It Mean?

Thinking — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 23:27:26 +0000

that those who are opportunists see things that we do not see, think things we cannot and then do things as part of their plan... thinking that as strong as one might appear, it is that very strength that attracts the weak, the lost and the sick posing as knights in armor... thinking that when one is at such odds with just breathing is the perfect time to take advantage.

Christine comments on Why Keep This?

Christine — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 23:50:46 +0000

First, I have to say I'm sorry to Lucy. I'm sorry for taking her site for granted. I'm sorry for forgetting that this is HER site and no one elses. That we are privileged to come and speak our minds, thoughts and feelings. I forgot that. Reading Lucy's response to Christine N.'s entry put it all in perspective for me.
I have never met anyone here and only know you all through Lucy's site.
I thank her for allowing me to post, for meeting wonderful people and all I can say is thank you Lucy.
Christine

Joanne comments on Why Keep This?

Joanne — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 02:34:31 +0000

I've had some other thoughts also.. perhaps later I'll share.. most likely personally rather than here. Above Lucy you wrote about how maybe your first book would be about similiarities in other more 'normal' deaths.. my thoughts have been along the lines of differences. I find myself more thinking about how the death of a child is very different. I guess for me I want to be as supportive and understanding as possible to your feelings and needs.

Joanne comments on Why Keep This?

Joanne — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 02:28:30 +0000

I fully agree with you Christine N., and with you Lucy!

"As individuals we all handle things differently, we come to acceptances and allow change at different times and stages. What may take one year for someone may take another 3 or 5 or more years. It is a process and whatever one needs is okay."

All my love! <3

Lucy Wightman comments on Why Keep This?

Lucy Wightman — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 02:18:44 +0000

Hi Christine N
I really do appreciate your comment and the way you stepped up. Some of what was stated has been in my mind a little bit and it left me a little unsettled to be honest. Thank you for some clarity. I have no control over anyone's reaction at all and accept this. That is life, right? And I would not want to think I could control it. That would be dull. I try to keep a perspective. I know we have very little control at all. To think that I need to be responsible for people moving on and that my same old story prevents that is way above my pay scale. Like I have to be some entertainer or something.... and that somehow this level of chronic, searing pain is a choice. Too bad if people are BORED by it. I could care less. I do wish that I could come up for air and transform things enough to be of use in some way. Faking my way to that point would be ridiculous.

Christine N. comments on Why Keep This?

Christine N. — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 14:14:40 +0000

Hi Lucy,
I don't know who these people think made them judge and jury. You do not, nor should not, have to validate yourself to anybody. The last time I checked we were still living in a free country. It really isn't anybody's business to question your reasons for this site or any other site or any other thing in YOUR life. Is their life so perfect that they need to try to convert others to their way of thinking? I think you are one of the strongest women around and I could never in a million years imagine the deep heartache and emptiness you feel over the loss of your beloved daughter, and nobody has the right to question the way you choose to grieve. I also think you have shown tremendous courage in not running from your past, which by the way, is nothing to run from nor be ashamed of. I don't know, and you know better than I, but I think a lot of this has at least something to do with jealousy because of your strength, intelligence, independence and beauty. You have accomplished a great deal in your life and you have earned the right to hold your head high. If I were you I would not respond to any future inquiries about why you do what you do. Millions of people have websites to voice their opinions and thoughts and people who visit this site should feel honored that you are willing to open up and share your innermost thoughts and feelings. I also think that if they don't like you or your site then they should stay away, again free country. It just galls me that people think they have the right to say what they please to others, when in fact, it is none of their business. Stay well, my thoughts are with you.

Sue comments on Why Keep This?

Sue — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 15:13:13 +0000

Sorry I have not posted. I have remained with yall in thought though. Hope everyone finds peace and a little joy this weekend.
Love Sue

Joanne comments on Why Keep This?

Joanne — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 23:51:35 +0000

I agree with you Chris.. and good one Holly! LOL!!

Hey Luc, I love your favicon!